The Bitlings

My husband is a visionary.  For years, I fought it, ignored it, and tried to change it. Why? Because, well, everyone knows what happens to the wives and children of *visionaries*...I won't mention them here because they are very scary things.
But once in a while, a visionary hatches a plan that isn't really too ridiculous, or unconventional, or scary. 
Kenny likes to read the works of C.S. Lewis and J.R.R. Tolkien. He knows that they were once friends, and would meet together here and there to chew on their ideas. They called their group of writers the Inklings.  And just this winter, my visionary husband started leading a group of high school-ers from our church in a writing group.  What did he call it?  Not the Inklings.  The Bitlings.  And if you don't get that play on words, perhaps you could ask someone in the 21st century.  I know I had to.
So every 3 weeks or so, we have a group of about 10-12 young adults in our home, and I feed them and occupy the younger crowd while Kenny teaches and inspires.

Can't you just hear the gears turning? Such a life we have, raising children into adults. 

Mr. Bingley, All Grown Up

Our second born, Joey, is going full-steam ahead as he finishes his last year of high school. Bittersweet for us, for sure.  He is working two full days a week, leading worship at our church once or twice a month, pulling a 99.9% in a very aggressive Spanish class, taking voice lessons and choir, and finishing his World History, US Government, and math at home. Last Friday he also had one of the lead roles in a small production of Pride and Prejudice.  He was talented and darling, if you ask his Mama.  Handsome, I'm sure, if you ask anyone else. I have to say, though, that I missed seeing Danny up there with him, as he has been in past years.  It's kind of like singing in a round; one moves out and another steps in.

'Mr. Darcy' and 'Mr. Bingley'.  In real life, they are good friends. 

Mr. Bingley and Emma

Mr. Bingley and Strange Friends and Relations

The Best Salad Ever

My husband loves Greek salads.  He had one at our pastor's home once, and has begged me to re-create it.  We tweaked it a bit, and when we found our Feta had gone bad, we substituted fresh shredded Parmesan.  Oh. My. Goodness. This salad is so good, I think I could live off of it.  Hey, and it's healthy too.  Double goodness.

We finely chop: 2 slices of red onion, 1 red pepper (seeded), 2 Roma tomatoes, 1 English cucumber (peeled or not, I don't have a preference), and a handful of chopped Kalmata olives.  Then we toss it with just a bit of balsamic vinagrette dressing, and a sprinkle (or two. Or three) of shredded Parmesan cheese. We get our cheese at Costco, about $10 for a two pound bag. And please don't use that granulated stuff in the green can!  You'll ruin the salad!

Full of God's Goodness to us!

Mikey likes it!

Keeping Toddlers Busy During School

How many times have I gone to a homeschool conference and seen a workshop titled, 'Occupying Toddlers While Teaching Older Children'.  Of course I never actually went to one of those seminars.  I was confident I knew what to do with all my littles to ensure a perfectly peaceful and uninterrupted school day.  Ahem.  And confidence is the same thing as success, right?
While I'll admit my home has rarely been labeled as noise -free, clutter-free, or stress-free, I have learned a few things about keeping my littles happy and semi-quiet so I can teach the olders.  I don't do anything highly structured, (tried that many times and made everyone cry.  Including me.)  but I have a timer.  My kids love the timer.  I set it for a half-hour to 45 minutes when I need them to play alone.  I get out something constructive, like Duplo or drawing books or play-doh, or I have them make a fort or play store, complete with cans and boxes from mom's pantry, and away we go.  Perfectly, of course, with no fighting over toys, no crying over bonked heads, no asking how many more minutes until the timer is done.  It works pretty well, so long as it doesn't go on forever. The littles get a chance to play something special, and I get time alone with a child or two who needs extra help. And the littles are instructed to not bother Mommy until the timer dings. See?  I really didn't need that fancy seminar. It just took me about fifty years to get really good at this.

My darling baby boy, scooping up dried beans.

Ellie quickly joined in with brother.  Sarah wanted to also, but she was the one working with Mom.

Happy children!
They stayed put for almost an hour. And those beans only took ten minutes to sweep up, rinse, and put on the stove for tomorrow's dinner!  Talk about the five-minute rule...Don't worry...If I have you over for dinner, I promise I won't serve you beans that my children have been playing with.  On the floor.

The Project House

How do you eat an elephant?  One bite at a time, they say.

How do you manage a huge move, renovation, update and organize?  One bite at a time, naturally. How do you manage a very large family in the middle of tournament week and regular life? One bite at a time, again. Or perhaps if you're really wanting to finish things up, you could sneak in a few extra bites, here and there, just to make sure the elephant doesn't get left out and rot, eh? Some days I feel there are just plates and plates of elephant all through the house, waiting to be eaten.  Like today...

 Sorting out all these books to fit them on...

 the new bookcases we just got and are putting together. Or are playing inside of, depending on who you are.

 Helping Thomas finish up his expository speech for the four-day tournament this week. And yes, he is in my closet.  Never mind...

Trying out paint colors in our bedroom.  One of three rooms to be painted this spring.

It's a good life.  A busy one.  A project one.